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You’ve done the high-achieving hustle.
You know how to keep up, show up, and push through.
But now?
You want to grow without grinding.
You want progress that honors your nervous system.
A structure that supports your soul.
That’s why I offer two unique coaching containers—each one designed to meet you exactly where you are and guide you where you want to go.
Because transformation isn’t one-size-fits-all.
It’s time to choose the space that reflects how you work best.
Some of my favorite client breakthroughs started with a simple, real conversation—one where I could hear what’s truly going on for you and help you get clear on what’s next.
If that feels like the right next step, you don’t even need to scroll any further.
Let’s hop on a no-pressure, complimentary consult. I’ll listen, ask a few clarifying questions, and if I feel like I can genuinely support you, I’ll share what that could look like.
No strings, no expectations—just space for clarity and grounded next steps.
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Book a call to learn more!
Prefer to explore your options first?
Totally get it—some folks love a good info-gathering moment before jumping on a call or committing to a program. If that’s you, take your time and give this page a scroll.
Below, you’ll find the different ways we can work together—each one designed to help you shed the pressure to perform, perfect, or prove, so you can lead, create, and connect from a place of clarity, confidence, and deep alignment.
This is about stepping into your next level—not by becoming someone else, but by becoming more fully you.
Feel into what resonates, and when you’re ready, you can either jump into the Authenticity Lab or book a consult to talk it through.
No pressure, no weird sales vibes—just options, clarity, and intentional next steps.
Your Season of Deep, Devoted Momentum
This is for you if you love working deeply with a hands-on coach who sees your brilliance, understands your vision and brings a holistic approach to your goals, and you want to bring a project, career move, or big vision to life within the next six months.
VIP Coaching provides high-touch support designed to keep you anchored, clear, and aligned as you take bold action toward your vision.
If you’re a business owner: We might co-create a growth strategy aligned with your Human Design, build out your signature talk, or refine your leadership skills.
If you’re a professional: We might develop a pathway to your next promotion, strengthen your leadership presence, and design a more sustainable work-life balance.
VIP Coaching is a customized, hands-on service where we make deep, foundational changes in your priorities and your mindset, and activate the logistical plan to integrate the changes into your life for lasting results.
It’s like having a strategist, sounding board, and energetic anchor in your back pocket.
VIP Coaching Helps You:
What’s Included:
• Three deep-dive sessions/month
• Full onboarding w/ Human Design + Kolbe debrief
• Voxer support between sessions
• Access to the VIP Leadership & Business Vault (Mindset Tools, Templates, Done-For-You Systems)
• Custom ChatGPT “5-Minute Coach” tool for instant breakthroughs
Investment Starting at $5550
It’s time to shift from proving to presence.
From procrastinating and perfecting… to showing up, and taking up space as you—confidently, unapologetically, and in full alignment.
❌ You can’t attract aligned clients until you truly know, accept, and own who you are.
❌ You can’t grow a sustainable, soul-aligned business until you’re clear on your values and what success actually means to you.
❌ You can’t pursue meaningful success until you’re clear on your values—and what you actually want, not just what you’re good at or what others expect.
The Authenticity Lab helps you do exactly that—uncover your authentic energy, clarify your vision, and create alignment in your life, career, and business that feels real, not performative.
Part Power Community, Part Virtual Treasure Chest full of resources to help you uncover your authentic energy and manage your mindset, and Lots of Direct Access to Me, Your Coach!
If you're ready to stop hiding parts of yourself and start building from your wholeness, this is your space.
Investment: $3000
🌕 VIP Coaching Partnership
Perfect if you thrive with a consistent structure, are craving deep transformation, and personalized, high-touch guidance. This is your space for big transformation and lasting change.
꩜ The Authenticity Lab
For those who feel energized by community, want to blend strategy with soul, and are ready to grow in a space that celebrates your full expression.
Still not sure?
Let’s explore what fits your energy and your goals.
One of the aspects of my work that I am truly proud of is the safe, non-judgemental space I create for my clients.
Our work together is not a one-size-fits-all approach.
You can expect clear, practical support that is tailored specifically for you.
Our work is based on meaningful connection, depth and presence.
We'll probably become friends for life!
The Seeker: Nine Months
Who this is for: You're ready to build your legacy make a positive impact in your community.
You've arrived with a mission to create a lasting legacy, to imprint a positive influence on the world, and you're fully committed to wholeheartedly pursuing your vision.
If you are ready to initiate a journey of profound transformation that seamlessly integrates your inner spiritual realm with your external experiences, welcome to the sacred space of The Seeker, where the power of ancient wisdom meets the warmth of modern, practical guidance.
Let's embark on a profound exploration of the impact you're destined to make, and then let's breathe life into it!
✨Investment Upon Request considering VIP Day location
Shana began to trust herself and created the business of her dreams!
“When I found Carly, I had all kinds of emotional and physical weight. I knew that if I didn’t take some kind of step toward a change, the cost was too great.. Now I’m on my path!
I began taking better care of myself, and at the same time started getting better results in my business. In just a few months, I’ve built a new career path as a coach and I’m getting amazing results in my LIFE & BUSINESS! Carly showed me how to trust my instincts and hear myself more clearly so I could build a business that felt right for me.”
SHANA HARTMAN
Embodied Writing Coach
Shana began to trust herself and created the business of her dreams!
“When I found Carly, I had all kinds of emotional and physical weight. I knew that if I didn’t take some kind of step toward a change, the cost was too great.. Now I’m on my path!
I began taking better care of myself, and at the same time started getting better results in my business. In just a few months, I’ve built a new career path as a coach and I’m getting amazing results in my LIFE & BUSINESS! Carly showed me how to trust my instincts and hear myself more clearly so I could build a business that felt right for me.”
SHANA HARTMAN
Embodied Writing Coach
This is me, age seven.
It was around this time that my parents started to have problems in their relationship. My Nanny, (Dad's Mom) was very sick with bone cancer. My Dad had a complicated relationship with his mom, and my parents were doing the best they could to navigate their own relationship, having four kids, a farm, and a business.
My childhood was great on the outside, yet on the inside... this little seven-year-old quickly became the "peacemaker".
I could feel when a fight was coming on. I would try to diffuse the situation, tending to everyone's feelings and overfunctioning around the house to do everything I could to take care of anything that might upset my parents.
This little girl became very good at anticipating the feelings of others. I could (and still) quickly read and feel the energy of others.
While it supported my brothers and I during a very long, loud, and painful divorce, I coped with control.
I grew up quickly and started hanging out with kids much older than me.
I could become a chameleon in any situation, being the person I thought I should be.
This coping strategy helped me become successful in various jobs and even my career at The Peninsula Hotel.
I would often get assigned to the"difficult" clients because I understood them on a deeper level. I knew the reason they were angry wasn't because their appointment was mixed up.
There was something deeper at play.
This awareness and ability served me well into my twenties.
But it did cost me an immense amount of energy.
I didn't know how to disconnect from what I was feeling from other people.
So I carried it.
When I found personal development work, I had a deep inner knowing that I needed TOOLS to help break some of the patterns I was already seeing myself repeat from my family of origin.
At this point I was also practicing massage therapy and could FEEL the unexpressed emotions trapped in my client's bodies.
When I found coaching, I knew it was the avenue I needed to be able to put language to the energy in the body.
My first training was right one time. Only weeks after getting started with my coach certification, my father was going through an exceptionally hard time. He had been diagnosed as bipolar many years before and was expressing a particularly deep valley of despair.
I shared some of the very first tools and concepts I was learning about, Values and Boundaries.
We BOTH had a light bulb moment that he was living out of alignment with his values his entire life!
He was living a life of "shoulds" and pleasing everyone but himself.
With the support of his therapist, medication, bodywork, and coaching, six years later my Dad had the courage and capacity to sell our childhood home and move out to Colorado, where his twin brother had moved decades before to pursue his dreams, my now father joined him to pursue his own!
He listened to his grounded heart and decided to center his dream of working with horses, something he has been naturally gifted at since he was a teenager.
Now, my Dad, Greg is thriving!
My family recently got to take a trip out to the ranch to visit him! His emotional states no longer fluctuate drastically, and he's experiencing a sense of peace and happiness, and in a healthy relationship.
I'm so proud of my Dad for doing this work. His story is just one of many people I've helped with making big, bold, heart-centered decisions to gain a healthy sense of control their your life!
Here's my family on the ranch in southern Colorado!
Adventure and exploration form the bedrock of my core values.
My goal for the past ten+ years has been to make incremental shifts so that I don't NEED a vacation from my life... and I've accomplished that.
Now, listen... I'm not sipping margaritas on a beach all the time making buckets of money as I sleep, but that's not my definition of success.
Success to me is falling asleep early, feeling satisfied with the good work I've done, and working with clients to help them take the helm of their one precious life.
Now don't get me wrong... I LOVE a good adventure and margaritas, especially spicy ones! I love sailing in BVI and exploring the Thermals in Costa Rica!
But what I'm most proud of is the everyday life I've built.
I've listened to my energy and made adjustments with work and boundaries so that over time, my everyday commitments support my energy and natural rhythms.
This took time... but it is possible!
I'm proud of my relationship, which started out rocky and turned into a loving, mutually respectful and FUN partnership. We had to learn a lot about trust, safety and communication. I'll share what we've learned, and pass on my teachers' wisdom to you.
It's the connection and community that matter way more than all the spicy margaritas and money in the world!
I'm a sucker for the underdog story and a relentless cheerleader.
And I work to make a positive impact where I can.
Paradoxically, even though I love exploring and traveling, sometimes for weeks at a time (my packing system is legit!!) I also love being home with my books, my own bed, and fancy coffee machine (pandemic purchase... Dev is now an expert at making fancy designs with the milk... I'll keep trying!)
I've transformed my own life from an in-person, income-capped massage therapy practice to a location-independent coaching business that allows me to work from anywhere, with anyone in the world! I now live in Europe and travel almost every month to visit family or explore fantastic cultures around the world!
This was my vision TEN YEARS ago... so again... It does take time. But with a vision, consistent inquiry into mindset and social norms, and connection to body wisdom... YOUR vision is possible.
My life's work is to bring these powerful tools to support your mind, your body, your daily habits, and your lifestyle.
These tools will help you communicate honestly and openly with your families, your colleagues, and most importantly, with yourself.
Ok.. the fun stuff:
♐ My astrological chart - Sagittarius on the cusp of Capricorn with Aries Rising says my superpower is to turn what feels complicated and overwhelming into comprehensible and easy-to-implement steps forward!
⚡ I was struck by lightning... ask me about it sometime!
🎸 Harmony is my number one strength in Strengths-Finder and it couldn't be more true! Coordinating schedules, team communication, and community culture, systems, programs & processes is my happy place! I also play the guitar and love to harmonize with my hubby!
☘️ I moved to Galway, Ireland with my husband, Devin in 2019 for what was supposed to be six months...We're still here!
🧜♀️ I took up icy daily dips Irish Atlantic during the pandemic and it's become a daily ritual to connect with nature and my local community!
As they say here, it's great CRAIC!
📚 When I'm not wearing my coaching hat I'm listening to the latest online business podcast... or diving into one of the 9 books stacked on my bedside table!
I'd love to get to know you more so please feel free to send me an email carly@carlyclarkzimmer.com or a DM on Instagram!
The Prom, Salthill, Galway Ireland
Included in the Explorer & Seeker programs...
How is Life & Leadership Development Coaching different from Performance Coaching?
What is the difference between Coaching, Consulting, and Consulting?
Why has coaching become so popular?
What is the investment?
Member of Professional Associations & Additional Degrees
Recycling the same arguments and conversations is draining and unproductive.
Cross-Cultural Competency, Awareness, and Equity Pledge:
I stand in solidarity with Black, Brown, Indigenous, Minority Ethnic, and People of Colour, LGBTQIA+ & those who hold culturally and systemically marginalized identities to dismantle systemic racism. I pledge to continue to comb through my cultural bias, vet coaching tools and philosophies, and question business systems & practices for their equality and effectiveness instead of blindly following what has been done before. After all, if you've read this far you know that this is everything I'm here to dismantle both systemically and within ourselves.
My communities have a strict vetting process so that we can provide a safe, trauma-informed space for people of all identities to learn, grow, ask questions, and provide their own valuable insight and feedback for us all to learn from.
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