How to Clear Up Miscommunication using the Drama Triangle
Recycling the same arguments and conversations is draining and unproductive.
Together, we will break self-sabotaging patterns that no longer serve you and replace them with strategies that work.
Don’t be surprised if you get promoted, earn more money, or land the role or business of a lifetime!
Together, we will break self-sabotaging patterns that no longer serve you and replace them with strategies that work.
Don’t be surprised if you get promoted, earn more money, or land the role or business of a lifetime!
I'm Carly Clark Zimmer, Executive Life and Leadership Coach.
Here's how I can help...
I'll help you step into the driver's seat of your life so you can confidently make decisions that are right for you and lead from a place of personal integrity.
Clarity comes from getting connected with your truly committed to.
To do that, we must go into your own heart and answer the question:
What do you want?
Is it a promotion so you can finally step into the role you know you can excel at?
Or is it making a bold change in your career?
Or break free from the golden handcuffs and start your own business?
Answering this question is the hardest, yet essential first step to making big change.
Once we get clear on what you want, the patterns of self-sabotage and doubt will become clear.
That's when change is possible.
If you feel stuck in a job and it's sucking the soul out of you, yet you rationalize that the pay makes up for it...
If you want to make a big move in your career yet feel fearful of what might happen if you do...
If you tolerate toxic people at work who constantly cross your boundaries, even when you get home at night because you can’t stop thinking about how impossible they are...
And you keep telling yourself...
"What if it's worse if I leave?"
I can help you untangle the mental knots keeping you in limbo so that you can finally move forward into the truest form of your life's expression.
Otherwise...
We tolerate it...
🔥 But eventually, it will start to burn and change will no longer become optional. 🔥
Constantly replaying conversations after the fact, beating yourself up for what you "should" have said.
Never feeling good enough despite the accolades and achievements, and it's starting to negatively impact your career.
Working tirelessly towards your goals. Yet when you achieve them, the accomplished feeling is fleeting. Sometimes lasting only for seconds, if it comes at all.
You feel the constant pressure to do more, be more, work more, cook more, meditate more, relax more...
Even though you're aware that perfection doesn't exist, you still feel pressure to look and act a certain way...
You've for a big heart, but feel like the "nice girl" is biting you in the bum!
You don't feel like people really see you.
When things go well, you feel like you're constantly waiting for the other shoe to drop.
You fear failure... and success...
If this is you and you want to make the most out of this one precious life we have, I can help.
I'm fiercely dedicated to a small number of clients so that together we can journey towards your definition of success.
I'm direct in my coaching and will be the one person in your life who is truthful, non-judgemental, supportive and clear with you during every session.
This is your time to let all of the roles fall away so that you can start to uncover who you are, and what you really want out of your work and life.
🔥 Your courage is kindling for change.
Here's Your Pathway Forward...
We'll work together to explore the Four Realms which act as building blocks to create your fulfilling life and exquisite life.
Understand the science behind change and how to use the mind to overcome limiting beliefs and build a body of new guiding principals.
Ready to start exploring?
Book a complementary Exploration call to see if this method is the pathway you've been looking for.
On this call, I’ll walk you through a process called Road Mapping.
From there we can decide what necessities you might need, and if my additional support on this journey might be helpful.
My dedication is to help you live in FULL INTEGRITY with yourself.
*If I can help you, I'll share a few ways how. There is no pressure to work together beyond this call. No sales tactics or mental manipulation at play here. My ultimate goal is your grounded decision.
Training & Certifications
From the Masculine Energy of Hustling in NYC to Exploring a New Career in Bali...
"Working with Carly has been transformational in my life. As a coach and as a person, she truly comes from a place of integrity and truth, and you can feel that when you work with her.
Four years ago, when I was at the beginning of my self-discovery journey. I thought she was going to make me quit my job right away!
Instead, Carly met me where I was. I needed to get to know myself and why I wanted to leave so I could figure out where I needed to go next.
I got to really know myself, so I had the internal trust to take the big leap.
I'm so grateful for her warmth, genuine curiosity, no-nonsense, direct feedback, and ability to guide me through whatever I'm going through at any time.
If you're considering working with her, I'd personally say, just take the leap.
You'll be happy you did."
P.S. For anyone on the fence, this best decision and investment you will ever make.
Seriously!
Allison C.
Writer, Yoga & Meditation Teacher
As a lifelong learner, I consistently train to enhance my ability to safely and expertly support you on a deeply informed, professional level.
Here are a few of my notable certifications & accomplishments:
Member of Professional Associations & Additional Degrees
Recycling the same arguments and conversations is draining and unproductive.
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